How did the two of them get together?  They have spent years trying to find answers from psychological research. Along the way, we cracked some of the mysteries, while also discovering that some of the clichés about love are true.

It’s not hard to be an environmentalist, what’s hard is to seriously seek something.

A 2016 study showed that people who like to buy eco-friendly items are more likely to seek a long-lasting relationship, while those who like to buy luxury goods are more likely to be physically attracted and more likely to have a short-term relationship.

A 2014 study found that in speed-dating experiments, men craved women more when they deliberately took a cold, indifferent attitude to men’s problems. But this finding only applies in certain situations.

Specifically, men needed to feel “commitment” from these women, suggesting that they had chosen her as their partner in this study, rather than being assigned to them as a subject.

However, it is worth noting that when women have been pretending to be cold and men are also full of desire for her, they will really like her less. Alas, love is so complicated.

Happy emotions are generally attractive in women, but not necessarily so in men.

In 2011, researchers conducted an experiment with more than 1,000 subjects. They showed them photos of the opposite sex and then asked how attractive the people in the photos were to them.

The results showed that when the women in the photos looked happy, men found them more attractive; when they looked arrogant, they were the least pleasing to men. For women, on the other hand, they prefer arrogant men and have no interest in men who look jovial.

Interestingly, a shy look on a male or female face is attractive to both sexes.

It might be helpful for you to maintain some mystery before a date. A 2011 study showed that people like you more when they’re not sure about your heart.

In the study, one group of women knew that the man in the photo had seen their profile and expressed admiration for them before they saw the man in the photo, while another group of women were told that the man in the photo they saw , also read their profiles, but gave a general evaluation.

A third group of women were told that the men in the photos shown to them had also seen their profiles, but they didn’t know whether the men liked them or didn’t have feelings for them. (In fact, what each group of women was told about men’s feelings toward them was fabricated by the researchers.)

It turned out that the group of women who didn’t understand each other’s mind had the highest level of admiration for the man in the photo.

We may all like a certain “type” of people, but women are more likely to be attached to the type of men they favor.

In a 2011 study, both men and women rated a person of the opposite sex as more attractive if they looked alike to their current partner or most recent ex. But this effect is not as pronounced in men as it is in women.

Still looking for love? Show yourself.

Literally, filling the physical space around you with lots of gestures, open-ended gestures. In a 2016 study, researchers looked at men and women who participated in speed dating activities. The results showed that when participants who collaborated with themselves had a lot of physical movement—waving their hands or arms—people were twice as likely to want to see each other again than those who sat still.

In the same study, researchers set up profiles on a GPS-based app for participants who were either very assertive or more modest and reserved. Similarly, those who held an open posture were more likely to have an open posture. easy to be caught.

Research over the past few decades has proven that the old adage “different attracts” is complete nonsense.

“Partners who are broadly similar in temperament, such as personalities, are more likely to experience the same feelings in their daily lives,” Gian Gonzaga said. “This can lead to a better understanding of each other.” He led a 2007 study of couples formed through the eHarmony website.