The Children are Depressed what Should Parents Do?
Some children could not feel the warmth of the family since they were young. At first, they were in a bad mood and dizzy occasionally. Then they felt trance, often wrestled and smashed their feet. Finally, they were diagnosed as depression by the psychiatric hospital.
Some children have been learning masters since they were young. The idea that their parents instilled in her is that grades should always come first, and there is only one night of leave a week. She has become a learning machine. After going to university, there are more people around her than her. A better student, she was diagnosed as severely depressed by the hospital.
Statistics show that around the world, about 2.8% of children under the age of 13 and 5.6% of adolescents between the ages of 13 and 18 are affected by depression. This number is a bit uncomfortable.
Many children suffering from depression have terrible native families and speechless parents. They ignored the children’s abnormal behavior, shirked responsibility under the inquiry of the school and the teacher, and refused to accept the facts under the diagnosis of the hospital. It can be said that part of the reason for children’s depression is the toxic native family and toxic parents.
When you were young, did your parents beat and scold you? In your childhood, did you always have a grudge because of something your parents did to you? When you grow up, do you encounter difficulties in getting along with others and obstacles in entering close relationships because of the bad experiences of your childhood home family?
Many adults still don’t feel happy even after they get married and start a business. They always seem to have something missing in their hearts, or there are some stuck points, so that they always encounter obstacles when they want to go further in their family and career. Powerless and self-sorrowful emotions.
They have all experienced the harm they suffered from their parents in their original family in childhood, and the transmission of intergenerational transmission will allow these bad influences to be passed on from generation to generation. Maybe you didn’t realize it today, but one day you discovered it from your child, then you will have a cold war and realize the seriousness of the problem.
Everyone is created by the original family, and your thinking and behavior habits will definitely be influenced by your parents who grew up with you. If you unfortunately encounter a toxic native family and toxic parents, you will suffer more than others.
Some parents cannot love their children from the bottom of their hearts. After a long time, the children feel that they are not worthy of being loved. When they encounter problems, they are more likely to blame themselves than children who have been surrounded by love since childhood.